Sunday, December 17, 2006

The Greatest Story Ever Told

When you have children, no holiday season is complete without the annual 'Holiday Program'. Whatever the holiday being featured, it is sure to be the sweetest, dearest and most comical twenty minutes of December (well, other than your kids playing with the boxes the toys came in, that is..) Our Church Preschool Nativity was no different. We had the privilege of being stage parents to a versatile little actress. One night she was to play a sheep and the next night, Mary. A diva in training, she preferred her role as Mary but we convinced her that being a sheep one night might be better than being a sheep both nights. In a glorious production, the children sang their way through the Christmas story, complete with handheld jingle bells, though I don't remember a lot of sleigh travel in Judea.

The two year olds were wide-eyed stars who either cried, yawned (as Hallie did) or sucked their thumbs. Graced with another year of maturity, the three and some four year olds were angels (wearing new wings this year, I might add). Much like the seniors in high school, the pre-K children had finally worked their way to the top of the heap. Basically, this means that they had costumes that took more than a minute to put on and they probably wouldn't cry. They were cast as sheep, shepherds, wise men and the Holy family. And so it came to pass that, led by the teachers, the children paraded in - the littlest and most flighty held by the hand. They gathered around the little manger and obligatory baby doll. {note: Mary, not being allowed to pick up her own baby at home REALLY would have been okay carrying in the baby Jesus down the aisle}
To announce the Good News, they sang 'Go Tell it on the Mountain' followed by 'Mary Had a Baby'. 'Twinkle, Twinkle, Christmas Star' led the way to the stable and 'Away in a Manger' told us of the baby's first night. At that point, the telling of the story was done because the bells were passed (which Mary immediately dropped and had to dive under the manger to retrieve) and the loud, joyful, seriously lacking in rhythm ringing began. After the quick collection of the bells, the children wished the audience a merry Christmas, in song, and posed for the cameras. It's not hard to guess that the photo session lasted nearly as long as the program as, class by class, the parents were invited forward to capture every memory. Each tear, sneeze, yawn, wave, and squirm are forever captured on the memory cards of everyone's cameras. Access to all pictures is required in order to get the real feel for the evening because, of course, each parent's photos of their child holds the toddler's brief flicker of attention. It's a well known fact that every one else has pictures of your child picking his or her nose and pulling on their hats.



The beauty of Hallie having reached the age of four is that she 'gets' Christmas. Yes we have more work to do now in terms of making sure Santa does his job but, Hallie knows why we celebrate Christmas and understands the message and meaning of Christmas. She can switch with ease between the stories of Jesus and the stories of Santa Claus and knows that the latter is the person who keeps the spirit of Christmas going by acting like Jesus wanted - being kind and giving, and loving everyone. Pretty good for four, I think. You know.....when the world gets too scary and I need a reminder of how it should be...I'm going to her.


For a simple version of the Christmas story watch the clip below. Enjoy!

Sunday, December 10, 2006

Santa, the deer and all that North Pole Stuff

It has been suggested that I have somehow caused Hallie's proclivity toward relishing Christmas. Hey, I'm not a fanatic and, though I don't grumble about the mall decorations displayed before Halloween, I concede to waiting until after a certain December birthday to get a tree (never mind that it would dry out anyway) and I wholeheartedly agree that the Christmas music should start after Thanksgiving. So, I'm not hopeless, right? Dear Hallie has come by her love of Christmas honestly and I don't do anything to encourage her further - not really, anyway. Believe me, she is well versed on all things Christmas and if you can get her to sit still long enough, she will fill you in on what you need to know. Here are her thoughts...
On reindeer: "Reindeers fly and they eat hay. They also leap out and play and they stop so Santa could give the presents to happy little children named Hallie (when pressed she includes Anna and Mommy and Daddy). They fly onto the roof pulling Santa's sleigh."




On Santa: "He lives at the North Pole. Santa delivers presents and loves to ride his reindeer all the time. Before they dash away, he calls all his reindeer by name. Elves make the toys and he lives with Mrs. Claus."


On Christmas Trees: "Christmas trees grow from seeds. You get them from the Christmas Tree store and then what you do with them is put it on top of your van. Then you take it home. Then you decorate it with ornaments and a star and lights. Then you go to sleep. Santa Claus comes and brings you presents and your mom and dad have to wake you up when Santa's gone."

She clearly recognizes all the symbols of a secular Christmas and, at this point, sees them as decoration for celebrating Jesus' birth. She has synthesized all the information beautifully. She can distinguish that the two Santa's she saw are different Santas (which is why she asked each one for something different) yet she knows there is one other Santa who pulls the Christmas Eve shift. It's perfectly logical to her and I wouldn't mess with it for the world.

I think she gets it better than we do.

Sunday, November 26, 2006

Our Little Turkeys

So many things for which to be thankful - this year and every year. We are thankful for family and friends and for the memories of those we no longer get to see. We are thankful for our health, a home, and the ability to provide for our family. We are thankful for having little turkeys of our very own.

Who knew little turkeys were so talented and smart? Of course, we speak of the human kind. Someone I know raised a turkey chick (which she still visits at the farm) and she said the thing about the rain is true. But, even more interesting, the turkey pecked the heck out of his feet because every time he looked down, he attacked those strange things he saw below him. NOT KIDDING. She said he perpetually had cut feet!

Well, the four year old turkey will stay out in the rain, without looking up, I might add, and doesn't come in. She dances around in her boots and rain coat and twirls her umbrella and it's the most beautiful thing I've ever seen. Never fear - poor Hallie has already heard us make reference to her as our turkey. She knows she earned the title because she was born a week before Thanksgiving and was 9 1/2 lbs. She also will tell you that Anna has to be a turkey too. This is because they are sisters and she can't be anything but a turkey or 'they won't match'. So wise. She has learned and changed so much since turning four. Just recently, when she saw little milk in her bowl of cereal, she asked if "there was any milk in my Kix?" Her dad told her that he didn't give her a lot because she didn't like it. She held up her hand to clarify and said, "3 year olds don't like a lot of milk but 4 year olds like lots and lots and lots of milk."

The 3 month old turkey is discovering those strange things below her but only kicks them and watches with a quizzical look as they are repeatedly pecked by the other members of her household. She also throws her socks like a horse throws a shoe. As soon as it's cold enough, the footie pajamas are coming out - I'm not trained as a sock wrangler. And, as far as rain goes... no worries. Even if we left her out in the rain, her eyes wouldn't fill. That's because, a week ago, at 3 months and 2 days, she rolled from her back to her front - on both sides. Let's see a regular turkey do that!


Yes, turkeys make you sleepy and sometimes you feel like you can't have any more. But then, you find room for just a smidge and, you go to bed happy. Of course, the best part about turkeys are the leftovers. So, at the end of the day, when all is said and done, we laugh (often secretly) about the days fare. Then, each morning, we get to wake up to more turkey (very amusing turkey, by the way) and have our fill again and again. We are most thankful for that.

Sunday, November 19, 2006

Birthday #4

I don't remember turning four but I know that I started "remembering" when I was four. Recently, I was asked to retrieve my earliest memory. Though I can scrounge up a few, the most vivid is that being made to wear masking tape (bearing my name) on my back at the Presbyterian Church preschool. I didn't regularly attend but, on that day needed day care so off I went. I'm quite sure it was a navy blue sweater and I played with weird blocks. Anyway, the common thread in all the memories shared that day was 'emotion'. So I guess extreme disgust was my emotion. Hallie has already proven to have an astounding memory as some of you have witnessed. She may remember a few things prior to her fourth birthday but I am quite sure she will have solid memories of this birthday because of her emotions; love, joy, happiness and security. This is a little girl who knows she has a loving family and is just happy to spend time with them. Oh yes, she loved her presents, but she loves her family. She knows they love her and knows her place with each member. She can even keep them straight! When her Auntie called and was wishing her a happy birthday, Hallie put her hand over the phone and said to me, "It's your sister' When Grandma called and asked to speak to me she replied "It's your mom" when asked who was on the line. Aunt Suzie called and left a birthday message to which Hallie excitedly responded "Aunt Suzie's singing to me - that's so ni-ice". When she was a year old I set up a picture wall (thanks for the idea, Rick and Vikki) to help her put names to the many faces of her HUGE family. She may get a few second cousins (or, once removed-I'm not sure) confused but she pretty well remembers everyone else she's met at least once. By the way, she'll remember where you were and what she did with you too. She knows Emily lives in the mountains where it's cool and thinks that Uncle Rennie should always drive with Grampa Chuck. Nope, no problem remembering and I'm sure I know why. Her memories will be those that come from love and warmth and a sense of belonging. Will she remember that she checked her bones before she went to sleep on the 19th and saw they had grown the morning of the 20th? Probably not. That's my job and my joy. But, her memories will be beautiful just the same.
No one said it was easy to have small children - especially when it comes to managing birthday parties. But, thanks to everyone's help and love, we pulled off a great party and Hallie has successfully, and with much fanfare, turned four.
Fabulous cake by deCroupet's

Sunday, November 05, 2006

A Busy Week!

The week began with, what one might call 'Parental Irony'. Anna decided she might try to sleep 4 hours.... and......Hallie decided to be congested and cry from an ear infection most of the night. Do ear aches never come in the daytime? Must be something about lying down that brings on the pressure because all of Hallie's have been established after a wailing night of little sleep. Remembering being a child, not only do they come during the night, they come around Holidays. Hallie was actually aware enough at 3 to be excited for Halloween and all it's events. We enjoyed Mickey's Halloween Treat at DCA and carved a jack o'lantern so at least she'd had something, right?

In all our wisdom, we knew that logic wouldn't hold so we hoped she could go out for some Halloween. So, not waiting to see if the ear hurt again the next night, she stayed home and Dad took her to the doctor. Ear and eye infections, possible cold and two prescriptions later, she could go to school and trick or treat a little bit at night. Thank goodness. Of course the antibiotic is gross - not even bubble gum flavored - and after Halloween we lost the power of "you have to take this or you can't go out for Halloween" but she got better at it and we discovered that putting it in orange juice isn't so bad. She also thought her vanilla shake tasted a little funny, but Daddy told her it was because it had melted a bit. Medicine down, Anna and I took Hallie and several heavy bags to school for the Halloween parade and party (of course, I also had to bring stuff since I'm the room mom). Anna was good, Hallie was ecstatic, to say the least, and she was very cooperative when I took her home early. She and Anna went to 'trunk or treat' at church that evening and finished off with a Halloween video. Sure we would have survived if Halloween was cancelled for us but, we're glad it didn't have to be!Hallie finished out the week at school and Anna and Mommy visited Daddy at work when Mommy went to get her flu shot. After a stop at Grandma's classroom, Anna went to TGIF with Daddy while Hallie went to the beauty salon and to pick up an early birthday present - a camera from Grampa Chuck! Saturday brought Sea World and lunch with Shamu (Mommy was super jealous) and Sunday brought Hallie a trip to the movies for The Santa Claus 3. Next weekend we rest - well, after the annual power shopping trip, that is...

PS In honor of Halloween - just shows...anything can be scary!